Would You Rather

Read it out loud, make everyone choose, then argue about it.

How it works

There are 60 questions, served in a shuffled order. You won’t see a question twice until you’ve been through all of them, so a long car journey doesn’t turn into reruns. Every question is family-friendly.

A few examples

  • Would you rather be able to fly, or be able to turn invisible?
  • Would you rather have unlimited money, or have unlimited time?
  • Would you rather explore the deep ocean, or explore outer space?
  • Would you rather travel 100 years into the past, or travel 100 years into the future?
  • Would you rather win the lottery, or live twice as long?
  • Would you rather meet your great-great-grandparents, or meet your great-great-grandchildren?

How to play

  1. One person reads the question aloud.
  2. Everyone picks an answer at the same time, by pointing or on a count of three, so nobody can follow the crowd.
  3. The minority has to explain their choice. That part is usually the most fun.

Why it works as an icebreaker

Both options in a good question are tempting or both are awkward, so there’s no obvious right answer. Having to choose makes people reveal a real preference, and the reasons behind it say a lot more than small talk. It needs no setup, no scoring, and works with two people or twenty. For a group that likes a score, try the trivia speed round.